The Story of Ruth and Naomi
(Ruth 3:1-5; 4:13-17)
– Naomi her mother-in-law said to her, "My daughter, I need to seek some security for you, so that it may be well
with you. Now here is our kinsman Boaz, with whose young women you have been working. See, he is winnowing barley tonight
at the threshing floor. Now wash and anoint yourself, and put on your best clothes and go down to the threshing floor; but
do not make yourself known to the man until he has finished eating and drinking. When he lies down, observe the place where
he lies; then, go and uncover his feet and lie down; and he will tell you what to do." She said to her, "All that
you tell me I will do."
So Boaz took Ruth and she became his wife. When they came together,
the LORD made her conceive, and she bore a son. Then the women said to Naomi, "Blessed be the LORD, who has not left
you this day without next-of-kin; and may his name be renowned in Israel! He shall be to you a restorer of life and a nourisher
of your old age; for your daughter-in-law who loves you, who is more to you than seven sons, has borne him." Then Naomi
took the child and laid him in her bosom, and became his nurse. The women of the neighborhood gave him a name, saying, "A
son has been born to Naomi." They named him Obed; he became the father of Jesse, the father of David.
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The Book of Ruth is a wonderful story about two women who claim a path
of life in an imperfect world, and find God has been moving deep within their trials to bring blessing. Our first reading
today was from a pivotal moment in the story, but I'm going to try to retell the whole narrative.
The story begins
with famine in Bethlehem. Naomi and her husband must migrate to another country, to Moab, a perennial enemy and competitor
of Israel. They start anew as immigrants in a strange country. They raise two sons who grow up to marry their
local sweethearts.
But tragedy strikes and all three of the men of the family die. Naomi is destitute
in a foreign land. In a patriarchal culture, without a man, she has no standing, no property, no protection. She
has no food or shelter, s0 she determines to return to Bethlehem where she hopes she can renew her family ties. She
urges her two Moabite daughters to seek similar refuge within their own families.
But her daughter-in-law Ruth
refuses. Ruth's primary loyalty is toward her mother-in-law. Ruth expresses a kind of fidelity that is so deep,
so matter-of-fact, that to her there wasn't even a choice to be made. Naomi tries to argue and reason with Ruth.
But from Ruth's perspective, there is nothing to talk about. Her fidelity toward Naomi is simply what it is. "You
are my mother-in-law. I love you. I am staying with you. That's that." Or more poetically, from
the King James Version, "Whither thou goest, I will go; and where thou lodgest, I will lodge: thy people shall be my
people, and thy God my God." These two women are from different tribes, different nations. They are not blood
kin. But Naomi and Ruth manifest fidelity, family at its best. Ruth aligns her fate to this destitute widow rather
than seeking her own welfare among her own people. The women find safe harbor within their relationship.
There
is a Hebrew word that describes this relationship. Hesed. It means steadfast love, kindness, loyalty, fidelity;
caring for another who is in need within the context of relationship. Over and over hesed is a word used to describe
God's steadfast love for us. Ruth sticks with Naomi just because that's the way she is; she has hesed for Naomi, steadfast
love. God sticks with us just because that's the way God is; God has hesed for us, steadfast love. Fidelity, kindness,
loyalty. God says to us, "You are my children. I love you. I am staying with you no matter what.
That's that."
Hesed is expressed within established relationships. Family and church are great teaching
grounds for hesed. In family and church we learn to live with people we didn't choose. We are stuck with each
other, just like God is stuck with us. So we live with a certain loyalty and fidelity toward the other, because that's
the way it is. We belong to each other.
So Ruth, the young widowed Moabite follows her older Jewish mother-in-law
Naomi to Israel, to Bethlehem. And Naomi devises a plan for securing their survival in this marginal and threatening
situation.
Naomi knows the system. So she creates a survival strategy for the women. We all live in
systems. To thrive, you got to understand the system and know how to maneuver in it. If you work the system well,
follow its rules, there are ways to produce a good outcome – generosity and virtue. Naomi works the system actively
and appropriately, with courage and wit.
Naomi has to coach Ruth about how to negotiate the customs of the system
in a land that is foreign to Ruth. The system says that land is passed through the sons. If a male landowner dies
without leaving a male heir, the next-of-kin has a right to claim the land so it will remain in the family, and an obligation
to marry the widow in order to bear offspring to continue the name and the family line.
Naomi coaches the
Moabite, and tells Ruth to go to her kinsman Boaz. "Wash and anoint yourself and put on your best clothes,"
she says. Ruth is to wait until Boaz retires to sleep, and to join him there. The text says, "When Boaz had
eaten and drunk, and he was in a contented mood, he went to lie down at the end of the heap of grain" on the threshing
floor. Following Naomi's instructions, Ruth "came stealthily and uncovered his feet, and lay down. At midnight
the man was startled, and turned over, and there, lying at his feet, was a woman! He said, 'Who are you?' And
she answered, 'I am Ruth your servant; spread your cloak over your servant, for you are next-of-kin."
To spread
one's cloak is an act to symbolize a proposal for marriage. Ruth tells Boaz that this is his right as next-of-kin.
In the warmth of this intimate moment, Naomi's strategy works. Boaz agrees to fulfill this duty, but informs Ruth that
there is another kinsman who has a prior claim. In the next scene, Boaz goes to the city gate where justice is administered
in order to give the other claimant his rights. The other wants the property, but not the responsibility of raising
an heir. Boaz legally secures his rights as next-of-kin and marries Ruth. The story comes full circle with the
birth of Obed, a name meaning "servant." In a beautiful image, the infant is laid in the arms of his grandmother
Naomi who nurses the child. Out of death has come new life.
One more thing. Obed will become
the grandfather of David, the greatest king of Israel, whose beginnings can be traced to the faithful actions of his Moabite
great-grandmother, Ruth.
There are two underlying narratives going on here. Most importantly, there is the
quiet presence of God, working in the background. I'll get back to that in a moment. But there is also an underlying
political narrative here.
Many scholars believe that this story was written with some proximity to the days of
Ezra and Nehemiah, when the exiles were returning to rebuild Jerusalem. Nehemiah pursued a policy of ethnic cleansing,
banning inter-marriage between Jews and non-Jews, and breaking apart the families that had already inter-married, sending
away the foreign spouses to their countries of origin, Moabites and others. Some believe that the book about Ruth the
Moabite was written as protest literature to counter the policies of Ezra and Nehemiah. Others suggest that this story
has a message for our time when migration and immigration have become a contentious issue. The senior pastor of Wellesley
Congregational Church, Martin Copenhaver suggests a maxim for this story, "Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers,
for thereby some have entertained the great-grandmother of a king."
I'm particularly drawn to this story as
a metaphor for the quiet presence and work of God. In this narrative, God is quietly in the background. The focus
is on the women and Boaz and their choices. God never directly intervenes. But God's hand is behind the plot.
While mentioned only in passing, God is the glue in this story.
God is present in all corners of life.
There is no place where God's work is not in process: in the loss of livelihood and the fate of transient immigrants; in the
journey into a strange place and the putting down of new roots; as young children grow up and marry; in joy and tragedy; as
death claims some and as wise planning seeks a survival plan; in deep loyalty and love; through risks in the field and self-interest
in the courts; something new is born. "The wily wisdom of the old woman and the courage of the young combine with
the generous heart of an older man; ...an old and broken heart is healed. Tenacious faith in God proves trustworthy.
"God works every day. God labors on the ground, in the heart, among the folk, and through life circumstances.
God weaves simple gestures, feelings, decisions, and actions in ways that bring good things. All this arises despite
loss and trouble, opposition and tyranny, displacement and pain. That is huge. It shakes the powerful...
It elevates the tender and dirt-real lives of the many." (G. Malcolm Sinclair)
God is at work in Ruth,
the poor, childless foreigner. By now that shouldn't be surprising to us. It is a major biblical theme that God
works through the most unlikely people – outsiders, strangers, and outcasts. And even through you and me.
God, unseen but never absent; the glue of life, full of surprises and keeper of ultimate promises.
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Acknowledgment: Much thanks for the help I got for this sermon from the
WJK series, Feasting on the Word, Year B, Vol. 4, 2009. This week's commentaries were written by Marcia Mount Shoop,
Martin B. Copenhaver, Frank M. Yamada, and G. Malcolm Sinclair. Many of the ideas and phrases for this sermon come from
this fine resource.